Crystals for Sex and Intimate Relationships

Crystals for Sex, Crystal Aphrodisiacs

It doesn’t matter how many roses you sprinkle the bed with or how lavish your night in plans are—when it comes to setting the mood for great, intimate sex, you need to start by stirring the energy within. Opening your body, mind, and energy up to a reenergizing exchange sometimes means having to breakthrough blocks. That’s where crystals for sex and intimacy can make all the difference.

Things like stress at work, worrying about kids, issues in the relationship, depression, anxiety and feeling tired are all ways that life can cause energy blocks. When the mind and spirit are concentrating on these problems, it can make it hard to summon your sensual chi. At the end of the day, sex is a release. So when you’re spirit is blocked, that emotional and physical release can’t happen. To improve your sexual experience, you have to focus on removing those blocks.

Crystals are powerful aphrodisiacs. Using crystals for sex, sensuality and intimacy will send vitalizing energy directly to your root and sacral chakras. By activating the chakra energy centers that control your desire and physical output, crystals for sex will create a shift in your emotional and subtle body.  This stimulus will break through the blocks that have settled into your spirit from other areas of your life. Free of stagnant, tired or negative energy, you open up space in your sacral chakra to give and receive a flow of intimacy and love. In this way, crystals for intimacy help partners to express their needs and wants, and to view the sexual relationship as a sacred bond.

Crystals for Sex and Intimacy

Red Jasper: This stone invigorates the libido and prolongs sexual excitement. It energizes and cleanses the sacral chakra and its related organs. This stone is especially useful for increasing virility in men.

Orange Carnelian: Orange Carnelian recharges the energy of the sacral chakra, enhancing sexuality and restoring vitality to the female sex organs.

Smoky Quartz Stone: This stone helps you accept that sex is normal, healthy and enjoyable. It helps to cleanse your sexual centers so that energy can flow freely. Smokey quartz is one of the best crystals for sex for men because it increases their virility.

Garnet Stone: Garnet dissolves any blockages that might exist in your lower chakras. It is also known as the stone of physical love and the relationship between loving partners. Use it to revive your intimate connection and increase passion in your relationship.

Rose Quartz Stone: Rose quartz opens the heart to love and trust between partners. It also helps increase self-love, which leads to more understanding and communication.

How to Use Crystals for Sex and Love in the Bedroom

Place them in the Pillow or On the Nightstand.

Crystals for sex and intimacy can be tucked into your pillow or placed on your nightstand so that they continue to rejuvenate your energy all night long.

Take a Love Bath.

Place these crystals in a bath with you so that you can soak in that sexually awakening energy. You can even try it with your partner for an extra dose of romance!

Place them on your body.

You can also work with them on the body, which will have a more powerful effect, since you’ll be able to directly place the stones over the sexual chakras.

Crystal Massage Ritual for Love and Intimacy

If you and your partner are ready to enhance the intimacy of your sexual experience, perform this simple, sensual crystal massage practice before hopping into bed. This crystal massage will stimulate an intense flow of energy, so that you can enter the next phase of your love practice from an even higher level.

If you’re single and looking to attract love, you can do this same crystal massage to open yourself up to receive this energy. This is a way of manifesting what energy you would like your future to hold. A crystal massage is also an excellent self-love practice, because it forces you to take the time and care to rejuvenate your love energy centers.  

What you’ll need:

-1 rose quartz, 1 smoky quartz, 1 red jasper and 1 carnelian tumbled stone


  1. Gather your rose quartz, smoky quartz, red jasper and orange carnelian tumbled stones.
  2. You can do this alone if you’re looking to attract love, or you can do this with your partner. Start by laying on your back in a comfortable position.
  3. Massage the area above your heart and place a rose quartz stone on your heart to open it to giving and receiving love.
  4. Then, massage your inner thighs and place smoky quartz between them so that the energy of passion can flow freely.
  5. Next, massage the area around your pubic bone and place the red jasper over it to stimulate the libido and energize the root chakra and sacral chakra.
  6. Finally, massage the area just below the navel and place the orange carnelian on your second chakra to recharge your sexual energy.
  7. Leave the stones on for 10-15 minutes to feel the energy of the stones working with your body.


  • Reply March 4, 2016


    If you are among those who fear for having physical relations, this stone can help you out. It simply lends you with a feel that sex is normal, healthy and you will enjoy it. Along this, it helps cleansing your sexual centers. Thus, it makes the energy flow freely in your body. One of the best stone you can count on is the Smokey quartz. Especially, for the men, it is one of the best crystals known for sex as it increases their virility.

  • Reply October 17, 2017

    Raven Wray

    I am looking for a crystal to help calm my sexual appetite down.

    • Reply December 5, 2017


      Look to the calming blue/purple stones – Sodalite, Amethyst and Celestite.

  • Reply January 4, 2018


    I’m looking for stones to help heal my body of joint and body pain that I have received after a incident and surgery

  • Reply January 30, 2018


    Have a friend who is using me for sex and someone else for her platonic love. Things are complicated, but I understand her, in that there is t much of a healthy positive connection between us mentally or emotionally. But the sex is good and she kind of screwed me over financially, so she’s sticking around because she isn’t a terrible terrible person. Only a terrible person. But I’m looking for a good gem combo to help me accept this relationship and protect me from heartbreak. And still increase my confidence and sexual drive so that when the time comes and there is someone else in my life, I will be receptive to that love and not closed off from the number this other girl is doing on my emotions. Suggestions?

    • Reply February 5, 2018


      Hi Teo, Are you looking to stay in this situation? Or sort of move on from this? Because as long as you stay in this relationship, it will be difficult energetically to move forwards. Let us know and we can give some recommendations.

  • Reply February 12, 2018


    I have a low/irregular libido and have strange feelings of shame/repression towards sex. Besides the emotional blockages, I have physical issues as well
    (ovarian cysts, pain upon entering) that make sex painful. Do you have recommendations on how to work past these issues?

    • Reply February 19, 2018


      Hi Dawn, you definitely want to look towards the stones that are connected with the second chakra (think orange colored – Carnelian is a wonderful one). But also some rainbow obsidian to work through any negative feelings towards sex. Sit with the obsidian or journal and see what comes up in terms of these feelings. Hope this helps!

  • Reply February 22, 2018


    Hi! I have the same issues as Dawn. The low libido and emotional blockage. My question is can the stones be just as effective if worn as well? I don’t know much about chakras and things like that but my low libido is putting a sore spot in my marriage.

    • Reply March 13, 2018


      Yes, wearing them is a wonderful way to connect with them! You may also want to try clearing your personal energy and your energy of the bedroom! There could be some stuck, stagnant energy blocks residing. Hope that helps!

    • Reply February 27, 2019


      A stone that has a very strong effect on Libido …. but often in crystal books isn’t mentioned this way is – selenite.

      Its primarily a crown \ soul start activation crystals which is the higher energy centers – but it has a very powerful secondary function of activating libido. If you buy a decent size chunk and place it under your bed I guarantee you will notice the effects in the mornings.

      As a man it gave me …..errr ….. hard problems to solve in the mornings. Like I was 15 again. 😛 Also my dog sleeps near my bed and he is getting on a bit in age and was pretty quiet and relaxed older chap. When I was working with large pieces of selenite he started suddenly humping anything that moved. And he literally hadn’t done that since he was a 2 year old pup. Yes crystals effect them too. 🙂

  • Reply February 27, 2018


    Could I wear any of these crystals as a necklace, bracelet, or ring, etc. and still get the same effect?

    • Reply March 13, 2018


      Yes! One of the best ways to interact and connect with crystals is by wearing them.

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