Finding, Being & Staying in Love - 04/06/2011

Love - one word that is so simple and yet so deep.  Finding, being and staying in love with oneself is one of life’s truest missions.  It always holds true:  when you are happy and in love with yourself you have more love to give and receive.

How can the energy of crystals and Feng Shui help us on the path to love?  Trust and compassion are the essential elements to love.  Rose Quartz is an excellent stone that emits the energy of love.  Place a piece of it on a window sill in the bedroom that sunlight hits and it will reflect love energy throughout the bedroom.  Heart shaped rose quartz on a nightstand or altar is very powerful.  Placing a heart shaped rose quartz crystal on a picture of yourself or of your loved one is a very powerful way of amplifying love energy. Placing a piece of rose quartz and amethyst crystal in the bedroom is an excellent way to spice up a romantic relationship. 

For people looking for love, it is always important to not have any mirrors in the bedroom.  In Feng Shui many people believe that mirrors in the bedroom, especially facing a bed, can bring a third party in the relationship.  A TV in the bedroom can also invite a third party into the relationship so it is always best to put TV’s in an enclosed armoire or remove the TV from the bedroom all together.  The bedroom is a place of rest, romance and rejuvenation it is best to keep TV’s in a more active room like a living room.  Look around at the artwork in your home many single people looking for a mate often have artwork in there home of landscapes or single people in the image.  When wanting to attract a mate it is a good idea to have a picture of two people in the bedroom or something that is symbolic of love to you.  Use your walls in your space to sub-consciously program back to you what you want to create in your life. 

To re-kindle the love in a marriage wear sunstone, rose quartz, malachite, aquamarine or moonstone.  Sunstone in particular will help you to tap into your sensual nature.  The double happiness symbol is excellent for attracting a mate! Check out the love necklace on energymuse.com.  Many people have had fabulous results with this necklace. 

To heal a broken heart, wear rose quartz, jade, peridot, pink tourmaline and watermelon tourmaline.  Think green and pink stones since these are the colors that are connected to the heart chakra.  During the healing process it is very important to cleanse your crystal jewelry.  The sun is the giver of life and an amazing source of rejuvenation. Regularly place the jewelry in the sun for several hours every 3-5 days to cleanse the energy of the stones.  It is important to always connect to your heart this way you will speak from the heart.

Truthful words from the heart that come from a place of compassion are always better received. Unconditional love starts with the self. Love yourself and the ability to give and receive love will follow.