Crystals for Sex and Intimate Relationships

Crystals for Sex, Crystal Aphrodisiacs

Crystals are powerful aphrodisiacs. Using crystals for sex, sensuality and intimacy activates the sexual energy in your body at the root and sacral chakras so that your emotional and subtle body is stimulated and love is able to flow seamlessly between both partners. It helps partners express their needs and wants within the space and to view the sexual relationship as a sacred bond.

Crystals for Sex and Intimacy

Red Jasper: This stone invigorates the libido and prolongs sexual excitement. It energizes and cleanses the sacral chakra and its related organs. This stone is especially useful for increasing virility in men.

Orange Carnelian: Orange Carnelian recharges the energy of the sacral chakra, enhancing sexuality and restoring vitality to the female sex organs.

Smoky Quartz Stone: This stone helps you accept that sex is normal, healthy and enjoyable. It helps to cleanse your sexual centers so that energy can flow freely. Smokey quartz is one of the best crystals for sex for men because it increases their virility.

Garnet Stone: Garnet dissolves any blockages that might exist in your lower chakras. It is also known as the stone of physical love and the relationship between loving partners. Use it to revive your intimate connection and increase passion in your relationship.

Rose Quartz Stone: Rose quartz opens the heart to love and trust between partners. It also helps increase self-love, which leads to more understanding and communication.

How to Use Crystals for Sex and Love in the Bedroom

These crystals for sex and intimacy can be tucked into your pillow, placed on your nightstand or put in a bath. You can also work with them on the body, which will have a more powerful effect, since you’ll be able to directly place the stones over the sexual chakras.

1. Gather a rose quartz, smoky quartz, red jasper and orange carnelian stone.
2. You can do this alone if you’re looking to attract love or you can do this with your partner. Start by laying on your back in a comfortable position.
3. Massage the area above your heart and place a rose quartz stone on your heart to open it to giving and receiving love.
4. Then, massage your inner thighs and place smoky quartz between them so that the energy of passion can flow freely.
5. Next, massage the area around your pubic bone and place the red jasper over it to stimulate the libido and energize the root chakra and sacral chakra.
6. Finally, massage the area just below the navel and place the orange carnelian on your second chakra to recharge your sexual energy.
7. Leave the stones on for 10-15 minutes to feel the energy of the stones working with your body.

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  • Reply March 4, 2016


    If you are among those who fear for having physical relations, this stone can help you out. It simply lends you with a feel that sex is normal, healthy and you will enjoy it. Along this, it helps cleansing your sexual centers. Thus, it makes the energy flow freely in your body. One of the best stone you can count on is the Smokey quartz. Especially, for the men, it is one of the best crystals known for sex as it increases their virility.

  • Reply October 17, 2017

    Raven Wray

    I am looking for a crystal to help calm my sexual appetite down.

    • Reply December 5, 2017


      Look to the calming blue/purple stones – Sodalite, Amethyst and Celestite.

  • Reply January 4, 2018


    I’m looking for stones to help heal my body of joint and body pain that I have received after a incident and surgery

  • Reply January 30, 2018


    Have a friend who is using me for sex and someone else for her platonic love. Things are complicated, but I understand her, in that there is t much of a healthy positive connection between us mentally or emotionally. But the sex is good and she kind of screwed me over financially, so she’s sticking around because she isn’t a terrible terrible person. Only a terrible person. But I’m looking for a good gem combo to help me accept this relationship and protect me from heartbreak. And still increase my confidence and sexual drive so that when the time comes and there is someone else in my life, I will be receptive to that love and not closed off from the number this other girl is doing on my emotions. Suggestions?

    • Reply February 5, 2018


      Hi Teo, Are you looking to stay in this situation? Or sort of move on from this? Because as long as you stay in this relationship, it will be difficult energetically to move forwards. Let us know and we can give some recommendations.

  • Reply February 12, 2018


    I have a low/irregular libido and have strange feelings of shame/repression towards sex. Besides the emotional blockages, I have physical issues as well
    (ovarian cysts, pain upon entering) that make sex painful. Do you have recommendations on how to work past these issues?

    • Reply February 19, 2018


      Hi Dawn, you definitely want to look towards the stones that are connected with the second chakra (think orange colored – Carnelian is a wonderful one). But also some rainbow obsidian to work through any negative feelings towards sex. Sit with the obsidian or journal and see what comes up in terms of these feelings. Hope this helps!

  • Reply February 22, 2018


    Hi! I have the same issues as Dawn. The low libido and emotional blockage. My question is can the stones be just as effective if worn as well? I don’t know much about chakras and things like that but my low libido is putting a sore spot in my marriage.

    • Reply March 13, 2018


      Yes, wearing them is a wonderful way to connect with them! You may also want to try clearing your personal energy and your energy of the bedroom! There could be some stuck, stagnant energy blocks residing. Hope that helps!

  • Reply February 27, 2018


    Could I wear any of these crystals as a necklace, bracelet, or ring, etc. and still get the same effect?

    • Reply March 13, 2018


      Yes! One of the best ways to interact and connect with crystals is by wearing them.

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